Kenrick D. (2011) Sex, Murder, and the Meaning of Life: Why Playboy Is Bad For Your Mental
Mechanisms, 9-22.
In this chapter, the author talks about the fact that in his youth he came to the assumption that when
we see a large flow of people, they seem more attractive to us because we only catch images, when
the crowd starts to thin out, we can look at the faces of each individual and the average person will
looks like the average person. The study confirms his assumption and also says that if you are a man
and if you see a large number of beautiful women, this may adversely affect your feelings for your
partner or even lead to difficulties in building relationships with ordinary girls. That is why
“Playboy’ negatively affects the mental mechanism of men. And if you are a woman and there are
too many well-off male leaders before your eyes, this can also negatively affect feelings towards a
partner.
Nowadays, people are increasingly paying attention to how the image of a woman is shown
in modern mass media being an institution that occupies an important position in the system of
formation and maintenance of the modern human community. The transformation of the image of
women in popular culture has had a tremendous impact on the crisis of women's identification as one
of the aspects of the global identity crisis, which has serious consequences for the harmonious
development of man and the whole society. It is alarming how modern advertisement is sexualized.
Media demonstrates scenes of cruelty and violence, cultivates of material values and consumer
stereotypes, and in particular the wide distributes pornographic and erotic materials.
The author's story begins when, as a student, he notices in a large flow of people that the girls
of this university are especially attractive, and his friend Dave does not agree with him saying that
there is no really beautiful among them. As it finds out later, this is due to the fact that the entire
room of Dave is hung with posters from the playboy magazine. A long-term study of the author has
proved that the more a man sees beautiful women, the less chance that he will be able to contact
ordinary women in real life. On this occasion, I would like to give an example from my life, some of
my male friends like to watch Victoria's secret shows, and they watch them in the presence of their
girlfriends. One of them once asked me a rhetorical, in his opinion, question: “It’s ok to call other
women beautiful in the presence of a girlfriend, right?”. I did not agree with him, but he continued to
say that if a woman is objectively beautiful, this is normal. I believe that this behavior suggests that
the man is not only disrespects his lady, but also is not sure about his choice, and therefore not
confident of himself. If a person has chosen a partner and intends to be in a serious relationship, then
there is no point in looking at other with sexual interest and corrupting his fantasy. If you cannot
cope with the desire to look and talk about models, perhaps you are still at the search stage. At that
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